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Unpopular opinion but I think it’s extremely unhealthy to be romanticising behaviours like “she always put him first, even when he hurt her” or “he loved them more than he loved himself”. It’s not cute or romantic, it’s super self destructive, actually. We shouldn’t be normalizing it. If you’re in a situation where you feel this way, it’s important to talk to somebody and get help. It’s unhealthy and you deserve to be happy and have healthy relationships.