And like. Imagine you had a friend that was going through these things with their family. You would beg them to get the fuck out of there. Could you even IMAGINE telling them to stay for the benefit and “love” of said family member?
Imagine your very best friend was, for example, STRANGLED by their druggie brother. Would you, on any PLANET in the UNIVERSE, take the brother’s side?????? No matter HOW much you liked the brother in the past????????????