if a guy is hitting on u and he is clearly the alpha in his group of guys.. go for the third in command and undermine their whole power structure
Oh god, I used this tactic so often. Because in most cases I was trying to pull dudes for my friends, rather than myself. You figure out who their leader is, go for #3 or #4 in the group, who is generally much cuter and a bit more shy. This is why he ranks high, but not too high. You go hard on this dude. You hold his hand and smile at him. You don’t even have to go further. Dude #3 is just bewildered you brushed off #1. This makes the dude at the top antsy. It causes dissent in the ranks. Your friends can now swoop in, picking from the remaining dudes as they start to scatter in the wind. They have lost all sense of self. You have secured free drinks for the rest of the night. And whatever else your genitals desire.
She broke that shit down so beautifully
women are masterminds and i love it
power structures and rankings what the hell is this shit
it’s not that deep
normal guy: hey, how’s it going? 🙂
op: how can i use and manipulate him and his friends for free drinks and easy sex
I hope these people and everyone who agrees with them stay alone in life till they grow the hell up and get a clue. Like they really think it’s cute and clever but it’s one of the most stupid and childish things I’ve ever heard of.
in any group of “guys” there isn’t usually a leader. or are they projecting their own group experience?
also perhaps the others aren’t flirting on you cause THEY’RE NOT FUCKING INTERESTED. maybe they have other stuff going on or maybe they already have a significant other.
this is just some bullshit PUA type idea of the world.