Thought it was interesting that once you completely shot down the Amy argument it became “it doesn’t matter what they were fighting about” Bc it does matter. Sam should have been the one apologizing, and I think he actually sort of does, later, as much as Sam ever apologizes for anything. Not that that stopped him from throwing it in Dean’s face whenever he could.

deanisdarkness:

Oh yeah. Their argument made no sense to me. Amy thing is kinda like a trigger for me bc its been brought up by Sam!stans so many times over (seriously, there are even fanfics about that out there, you know of the mean!dean/poor!sammy variety) and they always, always love to bring up her name even if it doesn’t fit the current argument. Dean killing Amy has been discussed to death in this fandom and no matter what, Sam!stans refuse to see the truth of that situation and paint Dean as some kind of horrible villain.

Amy was dropping bodies left and right, she wasn’t some innocent soccer mom, she was a killer monster. Sam was batshit crazy, he had recently tried to kill Dean, so it wasn’t like Dean could have trusted Sam’s judgement in this matter. As you said, Sam should have apologized for the whole mess, and he sorta did –as much as Sam can anyway. I actually loved that episode, it’s a pity that the show never used that writer again. (yeah, maybe bc Sam was made to apologize or something, Sera Gamble was in charge)

Also, Sam did get his revenge against Dean for killing his brain-eater monster girlfriend, didn’t he? Sam killed Dean’s daughter even-though she had no blood on her hands at that moment. She was a monster, yes, but she hadn’t killed yet, she was redeemable. I mean, Dean’s influence changed Amara, so maybe his words might have worked on Emma too, but Sam didn’t give Emma a chance bc he wanted to get back at Dean for killing Amy.

Of course, Sam stans never talk about the unfairness of Emma’s death, you know, since she’s related to Dean and all that. 

Dean, you told me you couldn’t beat Amara, that it would have to be me. Well, this is it – me.

Sam, 11.22 – We Happy Few

This is Sam at his manipulative best. Make a plan behind Dean’s back (a ridiculously stupid plan, which he KNOWS there’s no way Dean would go along with if he knew), and when it’s too late to change anything, or to hear Dean’s opinion, he turns it around and phrases it in such a way that this is what DEAN really has been asking for all along.

And presenting it as the only possible way for things to go. 

*rolls eyes*

(via juppschmitz)

In addition, I just love how he once again codes accepting what he wants to DO as the same as accepting him as a person. As if he is still unable to differentiate between the two. Either Dean agrees with whatever his plans are and follows his lead (without too much objection), or its proof that Dean is rejecting/disrespecting him.

(via squirrelsan)

This. Same old Ruby shit, is what it boils down to. (“Oh, Dean, but you’re not strong enough, you’re gonna have to let me do the thing, and it’s gonna be my way or the highway.”)

Same thing as it was with the Swan Suck situation:

Dean wants to say yes to Michael? Cas beats him up , he gets thrown in the panic room. (note that Dean saying yes to Michael, as far as they knew, required no extra sacrifice and Dean had been careful to keep everyone protected as far as he could with a deal with the angels. And Adam would’ve survived)

Sam wants to say yes to Lucifer? Dean, you better respect your brother’s choices! And help us bleed some demons so he can drink demon blood despite it being what caused the problem in the first place. Because if you don’t, you are a bad brother! (So there were a few meatsuits that got killed, plus all the people Lucifer killed while getting to Lawrence, PLUS Bobby, Cas and Adam. Bobby and Cas got better. Everyone else, didn’t)

Dean wants to keep the Mark and be sent to Outer space? Oh, despite the fact that it had been shown that Dean was never out of control, Sam plotted behind his back and created an impossible situation that of course, required that Dean sacrificed ONE person so that Death would sent him to outer space. (And if Sam hadn’t been an idiot, that one sacrifice wouldn’t have been required)

Sam wants to get the Mark and MAYBE be sent to outer space? Oh, Dean, you better support your brother, he’s such a hero! (never mind that all the people who died in season 11 were Sam’s fault for not supporting his brother)