“It’s not your job to make my lunch and kiss me goodnight… We’re adults… You gotta make your own choices even if I don’t like ‘em.”
I mean… unless I’m missing something… NONE OF THAT WAS THE PROBLEM THEY WERE HAVING.
Well, maybe, kind of sort of, part of the “problem” they were having was that Dean wanted them to be more of a family now that Mary was back…but at what point did he want her to baby him or Sam?
Asking her to treat them with respect isn’t some weird unreasonable infantile demand that she coddle them.
Nor is expecting her to tell them the truth.
And “choices”?!
Her choices got people killed! She worked with people who tortured her family! She was going to let Castiel die to hide that she’d stolen the Colt!
This speech makes it sound like they were arguing about who she could and couldn’t date!