MARY YOU DON’T HAVE TO GRIEVE YOUR CHILDREN THEY ARE RIGHT THERE. SO WHAT IF DEAN DOESN’T WEAR FUCKING HE-MAN UNDEROOS AND DRAW ON THE WALLS WITH CRAYONS? GO SIT IN HIS ROOM AND LISTEN TO ZEPPELIN II TOGETHER WHILE HE FILLS YOU IN ON LAST THREE DECADES OF HIS LIFE. IDEFK.